Where dating ends—and conscious connection begins.
“Because relationships are work—and some of us need a better job description.”
We built NoDatingAllowed.com (N.D.A.) for everyone who’s ever thought: “There’s got to be a better way to do relationships.” This is where humor meets healing, and metaphors meet manuals. Here, you’ll find tools, stories, and structures that help you design love on your terms—no more performance, no more panic, no more patterns on repeat.
Start with our About Page to understand what makes N.D.A. different. Then meet our creator and coach, Marisol Vega, who went from romantic burnout to relational architect.
Heal your attachment style and create secure relationships from the inside out.
Build your personalized Relational Operating Manual (ROM) with clarity and creativity.
Understand your attachment style in-depth and how to consciously shift it for lasting change.
Bundle up and save—this collection brings together our most transformative courses in one place.
Five days. Four nights. A handpicked location where you’ll unplug from algorithms and reconnect to yourself and others—with Marisol guiding you through transformative relational design.
Explore the RetreatMarisol shares the moment she stepped off the romantic hamster wheel—and started designing her own connection path.
A carousel of career/dating metaphors that’ll change how you see both forever.
Spoiler: Your last “situationship” might’ve been a temp gig without benefits.
Work 1-on-1 with Marisol · Frequently Asked Questions · Marisol's Bio