No Dating Allowed. But Love Is Welcome.
NoDatingAllowed.com—a.k.a. N.D.A.—is a social club, storytelling lab, and relationship experiment disguised as a website.
Founded in Austin, TX and expanding city by city, N.D.A. reimagines romance, friendship, and human connection outside the tired scripts of dating apps and algorithmic attraction. We believe intimacy can be intentional, not transactional.
What We Stand For
- Curiosity over performance. We unlearn the performance of attraction and relearn the art of relating.
- Systems awareness. We examine how modern culture, capitalism, and patriarchy shape our love lives—and design new models from within.
- Emotional literacy as power. We equip members with tools, practices, and play to build better relationships—with themselves and others.
What We Offer
- Online courses to rewrite your attachment and relational patterns
- Retreats and salons for immersive connection
- Essays, cartoons, and dialogue to challenge the dating status quo
- 1-on-1 coaching with Marisol Vega for post-daters and relationship design
- FAQ and community support for curious souls exploring conscious connection
We’re not anti-love. We’re pro-conscious connection. And we’re designing what comes next—together.
Ready to explore the future of intimacy? Browse our courses, join a retreat, or connect with a coach.